So I re-connected with a man I knew from church when I was in my teens. That’s why I call him Church Dude we were teens growing up in the same church. My friends hate that I call him that, but that's what he is a church dude! LOL! We saw each other at a birthday party for a mutual friend last October. The party was SO much fun. We danced and laughed and had a really good time that night and it didn’t hurt that I was gorgeous of course LOL! I was still in the process of ending with the Capt. so I didn’t really put to much weight on the encounter and chalked it up to a night of fun, but he had asked for my number when I arrived and
He started calling and turns out he has a great personality. He’s very funny! Ha! Ha! I love to laugh and he makes me laugh, smile and giggle a lot. I was/am still working through my feelings about other dude and don’t want to hurt Church Dude so we are taking it really slow. Just talking, and getting to know each other again. He has a bit of baggage so I have to be sure with him before we take this further.
Another thing is he’s not my typical type per se...but it’s time for me to step away from my type and try something different. I liked thuggish types. I think it’s ridiculous to be attracted to that type of man and not even be a hoodrat! I said I'm not! lol I’m more of a superficial, snobby, bourgie chick with hoodrat tendencies. LOL! Most of the types I’m attracted to don't believe I really like them because we are so mismatched.
Ahhh...but church dude is such a refreshing change. He is treating me the way I’m supposed to be treated. He’s a refined man and treats me like a lady and stuff LOL! The attraction for me is he is a big man! Big enough for me to sit on like a chair! I like that. I need to feel safe and he makes me feel that way. He also loves God and I like him.*PRESSES LIKE BUTTON* I’m not sure where this is going but so far it’s going………….*smile*