Gorgeous Ponderings...

Saturday, June 11, 2011


So I re-connected with a man I knew from church when I was in my teens. That’s why I call him Church Dude we were teens growing up in the same church. My friends hate that I call him that, but that's what he is a church dude! LOL! We saw each other at a birthday party for a mutual friend last October. The party was SO much fun. We danced and laughed and had a really good time that night and it didn’t hurt that I was gorgeous of course LOL! I was still in the process of ending with the Capt. so I didn’t really put to much weight on the encounter and chalked it up to a night of fun, but he had asked for my number when I arrived and my friend made me give it to him I gave it to him before I left. When I knew church dude before he was always very into me. Smiling in my face all the time and very complimentary, a teenage crush. I however, could care less and was NOT interested. Probably a mistake on my part because my aunt always told  me to like the one that likes you not the one you like. I'm finally heeding that advice!

He started calling and turns out he has a great personality. He’s very funny! Ha! Ha! I love to laugh and he makes me laugh, smile and giggle a lot. I was/am still working through my feelings about other dude and don’t want to hurt Church Dude so we are taking it really slow. Just talking, and getting to know each other again. He has a bit of baggage so I have to be sure with him before we take this further.

Another thing is he’s not my typical type per se...but it’s time for me to step away from my type and try something different. I liked thuggish types. I think it’s ridiculous to be attracted to that type of man and not even be a hoodrat! I said I'm not! lol I’m more of a superficial, snobby, bourgie chick with hoodrat tendencies. LOL! Most of the types I’m attracted to don't believe I really like them because we are so mismatched.

Ahhh...but church dude is such a refreshing change. He is treating me the way I’m supposed to be treated. He’s a refined man and treats me like a lady and stuff  LOL! The attraction for me is he is a big man! Big enough for me to sit on like a chair! I like that. I need to feel safe and he makes me feel that way. He also loves God and I like him.*PRESSES LIKE BUTTON* I’m not sure where this is going but so far it’s going………….*smile*


Reggie said...

Hmmmmmm, sounds like you met Mr. Wonderful. Just make good and damned sure he is actually Mr. Wonderful and not another Bishop Eddie "doodoo on his schlong Long.

Be careful now. Some of those "church dudes" are downright freaky.

Jameil said...

Oh this is such a fun phase in a relationship! Can we please not use sit on him like a chair ever again though??? LOLOL

GorgeousPuddin said...

Why you gotta bring up Eddie Wrong??? No this church dude is the bees knees lol

If he's a freak that's a bonus!

Look at you sounding like an ole married woman already LOL! Okay sit on him like he's a recliner. Is that better??

Ladynay said...

ROFL@ doodoo on his schlong Long! HAHAHAHAHA!

OK, this post made me smile. I hope this turns out well for the both of you.

GorgeousPuddin said...

Yeah that Reggie and that image Boo!!!

I too hope something comes of it! *smile*

Nexgrl said...

It seems as if he makes you happy. So far, that's a good thing.

GorgeousPuddin said...

@Nexgrl He does!! *big grin*

Anonymous said...

Oh this sounds like the start of something beautiful. :)

I too was always attracted to the thuggish guys. And I could describe myself using a couple of the words you used for yourself. So interesting.
My husband now is thuggish deep down but he's refined and intellectual and loves God, so I can attest to the refreshingness of a not-so-thuggish guy being a great (and better) catch.

Thoughtsofsoutherngal said...

"I’m more of a superficial, snobby, bourgie chick with hoodrat tendencies" I could have wrote this line myself. That's so me. I like a little thug in my men. When I say that I'm not talking about a dude who stands on the corner everyday, has no drive about himself, etc. That's too thuggish for me. But I like a man with some hmph about himself.