tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7156799235665681668.post3148047862937515723..comments2023-10-20T07:14:12.321-07:00Comments on Gorgeous Ponderings...: This Ship has sank..... insert sad face here :(Gorgeous_Puddinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10085340272419221124noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7156799235665681668.post-945533139107780212011-01-30T17:31:38.398-08:002011-01-30T17:31:38.398-08:00I understand your hurt. I agree with Jameil. We ...I understand your hurt. I agree with Jameil. We have a tendency to romanticize what is not meant for us. :side at me: You'll be good. After my divorce, christmas was awful. Over the years, I've learned to NOT relive every great moment, followed up by replaying the hurt. That never lends itself to true healing. You want real healing.kisz4tjhttp://kellyinaday.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7156799235665681668.post-38806219733647919822011-01-27T15:25:12.081-08:002011-01-27T15:25:12.081-08:00Again thanks everybody for your kind words! I'...Again thanks everybody for your kind words! I'm feeling better about IT now but I still have my days and the holidays were torture! but I made it through. I am hopeful that real love will find me!<br /><br />Thanks again!!<br /><br />(((HUGS BACK)))Gorgeous_Puddinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10085340272419221124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7156799235665681668.post-43772790519785251172011-01-27T05:03:32.401-08:002011-01-27T05:03:32.401-08:00Awwwww. It'a always sad to see a relationship ...Awwwww. It'a always sad to see a relationship go under. I know it sucks.But try to stay positive. Life and love will go on.K. Rockhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04925541446013113027noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7156799235665681668.post-38431791519686701572011-01-26T23:59:09.879-08:002011-01-26T23:59:09.879-08:00*realllllly huge hug* Love ya honey! I don't w...*realllllly huge hug* Love ya honey! I don't want to say anything cliche...so I'll just say..I'm here.☆Reesehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06138669109408770410noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7156799235665681668.post-71325463691312446162011-01-26T19:29:17.443-08:002011-01-26T19:29:17.443-08:00Awwwww, GP.....(((HUGS)))
I've been down ridd...Awwwww, GP.....(((HUGS)))<br /><br />I've been down ridden that love rollercoaster before. The high's are great and the lows....well you know. That shit hurts like no other. I'm glad you found the strength to put you first.AR Galhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01093240910831713544noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7156799235665681668.post-9886990742414641802011-01-26T17:44:51.124-08:002011-01-26T17:44:51.124-08:00Don't know what everyone else has said, but I&...Don't know what everyone else has said, but I'm sure all the stuff that came to my head has been said.<br /><br />*internet love*<br /><br />Mourn, breathe, then get up and keep moving honey!Ladynayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13767090012719390044noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7156799235665681668.post-77216096643874726062011-01-26T12:40:05.828-08:002011-01-26T12:40:05.828-08:00I'm sorry that this is how your story has turn...I'm sorry that this is how your story has turned into a bumpy ride. It takes time, but it does get better.Nexgrlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01385497972650466165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7156799235665681668.post-61805687555824632312011-01-26T12:05:54.933-08:002011-01-26T12:05:54.933-08:00I think it was good for you to get that off your c...I think it was good for you to get that off your chest. I think it will help the healing process. It goes back to what we talked about, being patient....there is a master plan and there is someone out there. The real ONE for you and it will happen when it's supposed to. Relationships are a lot of work, even good ones, but it sounds like there was a definite inbalance there. And you clearly had been unhappy for a long time. The right one will come along and it will most likely be when you least expect it! Keep your head up! :)~Mommy+Me~https://www.blogger.com/profile/12863235636095155872noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7156799235665681668.post-91623988250540762572011-01-26T11:53:17.206-08:002011-01-26T11:53:17.206-08:00(((HUGS)))(((HUGS)))Thoughtsofsoutherngalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15641623929016087368noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7156799235665681668.post-85968122720618738722011-01-26T11:22:56.322-08:002011-01-26T11:22:56.322-08:00Heart to Heart: I feel your pain and I am sooo so...Heart to Heart: I feel your pain and I am sooo sorry for the breakup. <br /><br />Mind to Mind: YOu are ready to have the love you deserve: without the off and on, without the second guessing and without his family.<br /><br />Soul to Soul: The love of your life is out there for you. He will find you and you will be blessed by knowing he is yours henceforth and for ever.<br /><br />Hugs and Kisses,<br />Smooches~Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7156799235665681668.post-28776429213288959732011-01-26T11:04:16.287-08:002011-01-26T11:04:16.287-08:00Thanks everybody for your comments, you are really...Thanks everybody for your comments, you are really making me feel hopeful! :)Gorgeous_Puddinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10085340272419221124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7156799235665681668.post-40503450618403529312011-01-26T09:10:51.534-08:002011-01-26T09:10:51.534-08:00*Hugs*
I felt your anguish and still lingering sa...*Hugs*<br /><br />I felt your anguish and still lingering sadness.. so sorry. I won't write anything cliche because I really hate that.. I will just say, it gets better. It really and truly does.P.S. I love this...https://www.blogger.com/profile/03371927454265200388noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7156799235665681668.post-77027569333260452892011-01-26T08:51:03.216-08:002011-01-26T08:51:03.216-08:00Just so you know, the silent treatment doesn't...Just so you know, the silent treatment doesn't work at all. I'm married and I think the best way to handle issues is by discussing them with one another. Of course you may need time to cool down and should know when to give one another space, but I've seen a few people use the silent treatment and have it back fire on them.Isheahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17623225698254978433noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7156799235665681668.post-90213158402056051572011-01-26T08:44:12.083-08:002011-01-26T08:44:12.083-08:00*BIG virtual hug*
I am so sorry you had to go thr...*BIG virtual hug*<br /><br />I am so sorry you had to go through this, but I am glad that you recognized that you deserve better. For some people that is the hardest part. <br /><br />Healing from a breakup is definitely a process, but as time goes on you will feel right as rain. (I tried to make you laugh, did it work? lol) <br /><br />Seriously, God had has a plan for you and all will be relieved. Just make sure you continue to believe in his ability. Remember not everyone is ready for what YOU have to offer them.Sheahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06710514749467600174noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7156799235665681668.post-17803665643753173602011-01-26T07:27:04.013-08:002011-01-26T07:27:04.013-08:00I'm glad you recognized it was a toxic situati...I'm glad you recognized it was a toxic situation and got out. Waiting around for a guy to become marriage material rarely works. Whether it's because he gets sick of you trying to change him or you get sick of waiting for him to change, in the meantime, you're wondering why it's taking him so long to grow up. And what if it takes forever? Then you're pissed that you've "wasted" all this time. The silent treatment never really works. What's the purpose? So he knows you're mad? He already knows that. We tend to idolize our relationships. If you're bad for each other, he wasn't the ONE for you. As daunting as re-starting is, once you're in a non-toxic relationship, you'll never want to go back!Jameilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02242625946552047911noreply@blogger.com